
- Key Takeaways
- Understanding Spousal Support or Alimony
- Spousal Support Laws Differ by State
- Spousal Support and Taxes
- Who is Eligible for Spousal Support or Alimony?
- Classifications of Spousal Support or Alimony
- What Factors Determine the Amount of Spousal Support or Alimony After a Divorce?
- Can I Change or Modify a Spousal Support Order?
- Why Work With Cordell & Cordell
- Frequently Asked Questions
- A Partner For You

- Key Takeaways
- Understanding Spousal Support or Alimony
- Spousal Support Laws Differ by State
- Spousal Support and Taxes
- Who is Eligible for Spousal Support or Alimony?
- Classifications of Spousal Support or Alimony
- What Factors Determine the Amount of Spousal Support or Alimony After a Divorce?
- Can I Change or Modify a Spousal Support Order?
- Why Work With Cordell & Cordell
- Frequently Asked Questions
- A Partner For You
Key Takeaways
- Not everyone is entitled to spousal support.
- The amount of spousal support is generally at the discretion of the court.
- To determine a fair spousal support (alimony) amount, the court reviews several factors, including the duration of the marriage and the contributions of each spouse.
You filed for divorce, or you’ve been served by your spouse, and their counterpetition or petition states that they expect you to pay alimony. It will be difficult to make it on your own, and now you’re facing another bill to pay every month. While you do not think you can afford it—you also do not know whether the court will order it for the rest of their life, for a period of time, or at all. However, the court may determine that a self-supporting spouse is not entitled to spousal support. You can also request spousal support if your partner is and will be better off financially, than you. The experienced family law attorneys at Cordell & Cordell can guide you through the process of fighting alimony or requesting it for yourself.
Understanding Spousal Support or Alimony
One frequently asked question is, “What is spousal support?” Among other questions are, whether you have to pay it and the reasons. Spousal support, which used to be referred to as alimony, is financial support for your spouse during or after a divorce. Several years ago, most states changed the term “alimony” to “spousal support”—since both men and women can request it.
Why Do People Pay Spousal Support?
The courts order one spouse to pay the other for a variety of reasons, including:
- Compensation for sacrifices made during the marriage, such as putting one’s career on hold to further the career of the other spouse
- Financial need post-divorce
- Maintaining a standard of living
- Fault (in a few states)
- Length of the marriage
Spousal Support Laws Differ by State
Each state has its own spousal support laws. While many laws are the same, others differ. Some state-specific examples of spousal support laws include:
- Missouri is phasing out permanent alimony in favor of temporary or short-term alimony.
- Florida orders alimony based partially on the length of the marriage.
- Virginia and many other states take into consideration the mental and physical condition of the parties.
Spousal Support and Taxes
In the United States, the tax implications of spousal support have changed significantly due to the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) enacted in 2017. For divorces finalized prior to Jan. 1, 2019, alimony payments are tax-deductible for the payer and taxable income for the recipient. For divorces finalized on or after Jan. 1, 2019, alimony is no longer tax-deductible for the payer, nor is it considered taxable income for the recipient.
Who is Eligible for Spousal Support or Alimony?
In a divorce case, both spouses can ask for alimony. However, the requesting spouse must meet their state’s guidelines, which often includes the financial status of each party, contributions to the marriage, the mental and physical health of the parties, the future earning capacity of each party, and asset division during the divorce.
Classifications of Spousal Support or Alimony
Depending on your state, the court may have several types of spousal support to choose from, including:
- Temporary alimony: Available in most states and usually ordered during the pendency of the divorce. The court may convert it to another form of alimony or may terminate alimony once the divorce is final.
- Bridge-the-gap alimony: A form of alimony offered to help a spouse transition from being married to being a single person. It is generally short-term.
- Rehabilitative alimony: This type of spousal support helps a lower-earning spouse become financially self-sufficient through education, career training or career advancement. This type is generally modified as soon as the payer has proof that the receiver is financially independent.
- Durational alimony: Financial assistance for spouses for a specific period of time.
- Permanent alimony: Many states have eliminated permanent alimony. However, if your state still offers it, it does not necessarily mean that it is for life. Instead, it does not have an end date.
- Lump sum alimony: Available in most states. In lieu of any of the other forms of alimony, a spouse can offer to pay alimony in one lump sum, often via an asset the receiving spouse wants.
What Factors Determine the Amount of Spousal Support or Alimony After a Divorce?
Courts use many factors to determine alimony. However, some states may not consider all the factors listed below.
- The duration of the marriage
- The financial resources and earning capacity of the parties
- Standard of living during the marriage
- Age and health of the parties
- Contributions to the marriage
- Educational needs of the parties
- Employment potential and future earning capacity
- Child custody arrangements
- Fault (where applicable)
- Financial misconduct
- Property division
- The ability to pay spousal support
Can I Change or Modify a Spousal Support Order?
Yes, you can modify a spousal support order. However, in most states, you will have to show a significant change in circumstances. Depending on your circumstances, spousal support payments could change or completely stop. An experienced attorney can guide you through the process to determine whether the change in circumstances is allowed by law in your state.
Why Work With Cordell & Cordell
During divorce proceedings, you should work with an experienced attorney, especially when either party is requesting spousal support. The divorce lawyers at Cordell & Cordell have the experience needed to help protect your rights.
Frequently Asked Questions
Not all ex-spouses are entitled to spousal support after divorce. A court will award alimony when a former spouse is unable to meet his or her needs without financial support from the spouse who can afford to pay it.
Alimony and spousal support are the same. However, many states have eliminated the term ‘alimony’ in favor of ‘spousal support,’ as the original term is associated with men paying women. However, both men and women can ask for spousal support.
Spousal support, sometimes referred to, in some states as spousal maintenance, typically ends under several circumstances—including the recipient’s marriage or cohabitation with another person or upon the death of either spouse. Additionally, alimony awards (maintenance) can have a predetermined duration based on agreements and court orders.
You can only terminate spousal support payments under certain circumstances. For example, if the paying spouse becomes unemployed (involuntarily in most states) or because of an illness, or if both spouses agree that the original reason for alimony is no longer valid, you can ask the court to terminate payments. The change requires a signed agreement from the parties or a court order.

Written by Joseph E. Cordell

Joseph E. Cordell is the Principal Partner at Cordell and Cordell, P.C., which he founded in 1990 with his wife, Yvonne. Over the past 25 years, the firm has grown to include more than 100 offices in 30 states, as well as internationally in the United Kingdom. Mr. Cordell is licensed to practice in the states of Illinois and Missouri and received his LL.M. from Washington University in St. Louis, Missouri. Joseph E. Cordell was named one of the Top 10 Best Family Law Attorneys for Client Satisfaction in Missouri.
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